Monday, March 03, 2008

Many FIRSTS.......

Dear All,

It has been like almost 6 mths since I last blogged... and well... thought it best to do some catch up since I have had many firsts during this time:

1) Planned and GOTTEN married and become MRS JOSHUA BRADY FARRELL =)

2) Had the most heart warming wedding gift by talented pals from Purdue (not sure if I can post the video on the site)

3) Returned from our honeymoon in Bali

4) Finally took a trip and went to HKG with babes n couple of hunks from SBC, my previous church

5) First time eating JB's cooking when he cooked up a storm for cell group (Cornerstone) for Christmas Eve

6) Collected ang pows for the last time this CNY, which is the 1st that JB is spending here

It is my intent to blog on each of the above mentioned 6 items individually... and with pics and videos.... but if I don't, pls forgive me... at least there's a summary!!! haha.... perhaps you could send me pictures if you have any!!!

Wednesday, August 29, 2007

I'M 27...!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY....
Me n the yummy cake from THE PATTISIER













JB+I with JC n St Nick's friends...Kit, Germaine, Chin Guan, Chee Haw, Ah Tat, Meili!













JB + I w NTUC colleagues... Kelly, Mee Ling n Amy!

Me n NTUC bosses Hin Kee + Choon Shian and colleague, Andrea

Me n babes Satomi, Arati n Satomi's fren from Japan












Me n youngest Flamebearers cell member... STELLA (as u can tell... we will never grow old!)













the other getting married couple... Aaron (photographer for the party n our wedding studio shots) + Elaine



the married couple... Kate (st nick's classmate n she has a twin!) n Ben












lovely Purdue group that are just... aw... so awesome!...

front row: Calvin + Lynn (married couple)
back row: Elaine, Cyn Yi, Huixian, Shihyang (in courtship w/ Elaine)

they were so sweet. decorated my room to give me a surprise as the party was going on at the pavillion downstairs... they made me a poster from pic of me worshipping, we r sitting on the FATBOY human size bean bag that they got me... they even made me a card with pictures of me worshipping in the front.... love ya all!

Lynn n Cyn Yi gonna be the overall wedding coordinator
Huixian is guestlist OIC (though she's getting married next year too!)
Shihyang n Elaine will help with music n technical stuff...
Calvin... well, represented by his wife!!













FANTASTIC FLAMEBEARERS...
they helped me prepare the food, they decorated the place, they were the urshers for the guests, they cleaned up, they are just simply amazing... serving and blessing me and JB w loads of love...

baxk row: Addison, Weida / Caleb, Aaron
middle row: Stella, Sarah (cell leader)
front row: Xinwen / Mary, Alisa, Abigail, Allan

Friday, August 24, 2007

ASTRONOMICAL GRACE!!

So this update is long, long OVERDUE...
My friends... some of you may already know... I am engaged... =) yes, as of 070707... and here's the account of the ASTRONOMICAL GRACE that God has shown me + JB.
He is penning an awesome love story in our lives...

06/07/07
Naomi awoke... it's 6am-ish, a little earlier than usual. Since last evening, she has been feeling a little unsettled. JB hasn't replied her sms for an extended period of time (i.e. since 04/07) and she had been wondering... "WHAT's UP GOD??" She reached for her phone and behold... there's an sms from JB... "phew... @ least he's ok".

Much more relieved, she stepped of her room groggily and bumped into her mom... I guess everyone's a little peculiar in the morning...
her mom uttered something very strange, "Your friend is outside"...

Naomi was like.."Huh???"

Nonetheless, she stumbled curiously into the living room, dressed gloriously in her PJs and adorned with slumber-ruffled hair.

Curious indeed... it seems as though she must have fallen asleep and dreaming once again...

There... sitting @ a corner of the dining table with a flipped open bible, in a tan that's a few shades darker than she remembered
but with the same heart-captivating smile, sat a man that she's been thinking more and more about and growing very fond of lately... =)

Instead of the usual "slap yourself to see if you are dreaming" practice, the smart Naomi started poking and tapping this supposed man...

Conclusion
Turns out that he had been planning to surprise me for my birthday and to help me prepare for my birthday party (7/7/7)... Family n some purdue mates n cell group knew of this... which translates to seamless logistics to sneak him into the house at midnight... even while I was still awake in my room (haha... i was watching Korean drama till pretty late!!!...)

Yes... I was very, very pleasantly surprised... this sort of stuff happens in stories and movies... and when it really happens to you... it kind of seems a little unreal... but I LIKE!! =) love surprises....

Boss was super nice... gave me half day off and approved leave for 2 days week after as he stayed for 1 week (06/07-13/7). That afternoon, we had lunch with some EDB folks and then I accompanied him to his interview for admission to NTU's MBA programme (yeah, he even did tell me he was having an interview with NTU weeks before but I always thought it was gonna be a phone interview... obviously I was not fully informed!)

That evening, together with some cell ppl (sarah, weida), we had dinner and went grocery shopping for birthday party tomorrow. Addison and Allan joined us later as we chopped chickens (all 5 mainly by JB), prepare marinade, boiled potatoes and eggs, and made preparations. Solid work for 3-4 hrs till abt midnight... and it was ice-cream time (courtesy of $1 Swensen's deal with HSBC card)!!

Then... well... i guess it's 07/07/07 already....

07/07/07
Something peculiar happened again... JB came into the dining area with a fresh, buttoned down shirt... well, it's too late to think too much, and though she was still in her "working" clothes reaking of food smells... she thought it a good time to take some pictures. After a couple of pictures, JB took Naomi's hand and said, "the rest can wait... you come over here"... He guided her towards the sofa and asked her to stand on it...

was it me... or did the atmosphere seems a little weird now... oh no... this is not happening... is it really happening.... no way... oh yes.... he has a little case in hand... and yes.... he is going down on his knees... oh great, all these pair of eyes.... and here comes the question... alright... where's the hole... this is not happening... it's too sudden... what am I suppose to say?????

so yes... my friends... i was very, very, very, surprised and totally caught off-guard... i quote many of those that have witnessed the proposal... "for once, she was truly speechless". I was already blown away with the surprise visit and to have him proposed... it was just beyond what I could ask or imagine... Since it was pre-planned, the entire proposal was videotaped and if you have not seen it yet... no worries... the video will be shown at the wedding.

we announced the engagement @ the birthday party that evening.... we had an amazing party!!
JB has been accepted to NTU's MBA programme and will be starting school this Nov so he will be here from mid Oct onwards... I just returned from a 2 weeks planned trip (3 - 18 Aug) to see him and we have also fixed the US reception date.

So when's the big day??
Feb 23 2008 in Cornerstone Community Church in Singapore
(no big secret to the choice... that's the week that he is out of school)
Jun 21 2008 in Lafayette, IN, USA (for his family and friends in the US)

You are all invited to the Singapore wedding... and if you can make it to the US reception to experience a US wedding... we would love to have you too!!

Email invites should be out to everyone before end of the month and the hard copy invitations some time later.... we really hope to see all of ya....













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Friday, June 01, 2007

long update... part 2

alrighties... so here's part 2...

we had a number of special speakers in church over the last month... it was absolutely phenomenal... seeing God work miracles and the physical manifestations of the Holy Spirit during the meetings really showed that God indeed works in the supernatural... i was touched, prayed for, prophesied over and definitely learnt during this period of time... He really showed me much during these meetings, many of which will be better shared in person... so the next time u meet me... u can ask me... =)

and of coz.. most of ya would be curious about how's things with JB... the summarised version will be... everything is progressing according to God's pace... =) we are very thankful for the grace that He has given us... suffice to say that there'll always be challenges but never anything that God has not already prepared the grace for us both to walk through...

well, he was here for 2.5 days from late night 3 May (Thurs) till early morning of May 6 (Sun). we really squeezed a lot in during the 2.5 days including supper, morning and late night walks, early morning breakfast with parents, visit to NTU, shopping around city hall, prayer meeting @ My Father's House, hangout at Lynn n Cal's with the Purdue folks and getting competitive at Guesstures between the boys n the gals, lunch with his Singaporean friends (yeah, he does have friends here that I met for the 1st time... =)), watched "One night with the King" with cellgroup... it's basically the story on Esther... seafood dinner @ East Coast and of coz the final send-off @ the airport... ok so here are some pics....

My foot n his... the yellow n brown vs. red n white... hahaha














Lunch @Marina square waraku with his NTU friends...



















here's us... trying to take some spontaneous pics....














send-off at the airport...















well, I will be going to the US for 2 weeks early Aug... so we'll get to spend sometime together again then... =)

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the past 2 months...

hello my dear friends... it has been absolutely forever since I last blogged... ok, it really is exactly 2 months ago since my last entry....

So i am settling in very well in my new job, am still working on the first task that i blogged about... and God has allowed many opportunities to share what I put together with various department heads in the organisation... I am also very thankful for the opportunity to take minutes at the weekly senior mgmt meeting... it's very precious to be able to see how mgmt thinks, feels and acts... =)

Work
- Group Induction at the Orchird Country Club and got to meet newbies (and not so new ones) from other parts of the NTUC family (co-ops mainly);

- Ferried to Batam for a union's retreat;

- Screened PMETs (Professionals, Managers, Executives and Technicians) for a job placement exercise... first time i got to interview ppl, good experience...;

- Been through 3 retrenchment exercises... the older the workers and the lower their education level, the more emotional the exercise... but we are there to share with them that we are committed to helping them find a job, if they help us help them... and they are mostly appreciative.

- Attended a couple of dialogue sessions with ministers with the union leaders and got chance to observe how union leaders advocate for their members;

- Held a talk with parents of needy students in a secondary school to see if we could find their moms jobs... they really explore various ways to see how we can help those who need a job.. try first and fine tune along the way... it fail, at least we have tried our best... not a bad approach for our own lives....

- Got to pass 194+ 23 trophies on stage to Min Lim Boon Heng during the May Day Model Worker's Award ceremony... i had to modify how i pass him the trophy coz my nails keep poking him when i handed the trophies to him... hahaha....

- Toured Keppel Shipyard and ended up referring the bus driver for that day to the marine sector coz he was interested in working there.... he was going to be out of a job come end june... this is part of why i am so motivated at my new workplace...

- Assistant Class MOnitor for an event where we conducted a tour for union leaders to understand the type of training that NTUC provides to help the workers get better jobs / pay.

The experience and exposure is pretty amazing thus far... and really looking forward to really making a positive contribution to the organisation in the remaining 10 mths...


now moving onto leisure... since it'll take too long to blog on every one of them... i'll highlight the memorable ones...

- cyn yi cooked a delicious 7-8 course dinner (it's the private kitchen style.... for the gals =) absolutely spoilt us... if u are not her friends yet... u may wanna stand in line... btw, i will be conducting interviews on her behalf... we will take the negotiations offline... hahahha....

- dinner with xiaoyu and yicai at Le Petite @ Serene centre... yicai will be graduating from bible college and returning to taiwan to serve in her church... hence it was like a farewell dinner that i wanted to buy them... and funny thing is, the place takes only cash and i was cashless... so the one buying the treat had to borrow $$ first to pay for the meal... super lost form right?

- celebrated michiko's b'dae at oosh... the floor mgr was super nice and extended us much grace when it came to corkage charges... haven't drank alcohol in a long while... but had a glass of champagne and red wine that night... they were delicious but i don't think i will miss alcohol too much... =)

This is getting quite long... so will do part 2 separately....

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Sunday, April 01, 2007

NTUC

Hello my dear friends... I have not blogged in a month and boy was it a long month... not because it was difficult but so many things happened, it's truly experiencing the fulness of life....

I have started my new job at NTUC, one year of secondment w.e.f. Mar 27 (Tues) after having spent one year at KPMG... Really wanted to share with all of ya how awesome and faithful God has been to place me at the exact place in a perfect time within the organisation.

Aug/Sep 06 --> Started to pray about whether I should extend for one more year at KPMG... and it became clear that I would not stay... fundamentally, the financial industry and the private sector at large does not motivate me... I really needed a job that impacted the lifes of ppl, not just dealing with dollars and cents, and impacting only businesses / organisations.

Knowing that leaving KPMG is certain, I wasn't sure whether it was to return to EDB or go for one more year of secondment to another organisation, and if the latter, where? there are so many options... the thing that I felt most peace about doing, was to set up a meeting with my ex-Dir in EDB (Mano) and to speak to him about this. I contacted his office but due to his tight schedule, we weren't able to nail down an exact time then.

Oct 06 --> Some of you would know that I went through a burnt out phase in Oct triggered by hectic dance schedule. When I was moving out of that phase, out of the blue, I got an email from Mano's PA telling me that he wanted to schedule the lunch that never took place... That is how gooood God is... even when I forgot totally abt arranging for the lunch... in HIs perfect time, He never forgets and He is never late. We scheduled the lunch and I started to pray real hard about what to say to him when I met him...

Not sounding presumptious, it was quite apparent to me that this appointment was divinely arranged and I would have favor with Mano... the only challenge at that time was... I did not know what to seek favor for... I had no idea where I would like to go!!!! I just kept praying and few days before the lunch... NTUC became an increasingly likely option. Actually the option to go to NTUC came up just before I joined KPMG... but because everything has been settled with KPMG, it didn't feel right / wise to pursue the NTUC option too aggressively then. So I really prayed that GOd will give favor when I speak to Mano about going to NTUC.... and HE did!!!!

He was more supportive than I expected him to be... and offered to speak first to EDB HR Dir (Anna) to see if they would have any concerns abt me going to NTUC...

Nov 06 --> at an EDB offsite event that I was invited to... Mano told me that informally, Anna was supportive and would work out the details with her staff to see how they can move forward with my request for secondment to NTUC... though she didn't see any huge problems... her preliminary support was yet another favor from God. It was clear to me that I would honor EDB and not speak with NTUC unless with EDB's consent / introduction.

Jan 07--> Up till one week before my scheduled "mini-round-the-world" trip, I still haven't heard from EDB HR. On 23rd Jan, 3 days before I was to fly off, I dropped an email to Anna to check on status of my secondment. Almost immediately, she replied and gave the go ahead to contact NTUC. In particular, she has spoken to my current NTUC boss (CS) who had quit EDB to join NTUC full time and had only been at NTUC a few months. I dropped an email to CS, and again, almost immediately, he replied and called to fix tea that evening at 6pm.

Meeting him is clearly a favor from God. He is a good buddy of Mano and back in Dec, Mano had already mentioned to CS of my intention to be seconded to NTUC. God really showed favor by allowing CS to also speak to me as a fren and not just as a prospective employer. I told CS of my intention to join the Job Recreation Department in NTUC and he shared candidly about his views on that.

To summarise, essentially, I agreed to join his department, Corporate Development Division a.k.a Strategy, Planning and Research department, trusting that God is placing me in exactly the place that He wants to be at. I had an interview with NTUC HR on 25th Jan, just a day before I flew off and it went very well. As always, I prayed for the Lord to show what must be conveyed during the interview. It was to communicate the real reason for wanting to join NTUC, which was God.

Feb 07 --> All new officers have a final round of interview with SG (i.e. Secretary General of NTUC Minister Lim Swee Say). By this round, it's 95% chance of getting ok, but 10-15% chance he may reassign the officer to different area if he thinks the officer better suited elsewhere. I trusted that God will place me exactly at where He wants me to be and SG was the best person to work through. My interview with SG was scheduled in mid-Feb. When I was praying about what to say to SG, God spoke 3 words to me that must be said... "you have to tell him that you are a person that is "Driven By Vision" and that is why you want to join NTUC"... I did. And you know what?? haha... he said "i agree with CS that you should be based in CDD but I think we should also see how we can expose you to some operations work".... yoo-hoo!!!

NOW --> My dear friends, the whole account is to really share with you how faithful God has been in guiding every single step to lead me to this organisation and in placing me in this exact role.

70% of my time is with Corporate Development where I get to work out / strategise on issues that pertain to improving worker's welfare and 30% of my time is spent with Employability Enhancement Department (EED) to have interactions with workers. The former allows me to have a broad overview of the organisation and its strategic direction and initiatives; it also allows me to have closer interactions with the top NTUC mgmt, union leaders and CEOs of coorperatives. The latter allows me to really feel the ground....

So my first day alone, I was tasked with an interesting project and experience how God can supernaturally generate ideas and angles of analysis to generate possible solutions / impactful stratefies, and I got to sit through 2 dialogue sessions that SG had with union leaders and mgmt of a coorperative. and in the next couple of days, I went through 2 retrenchment exercises and witness the reactions of the workers and understand the support that NTUC provides for the retrenched workers.

What can I say, God is so AMAZING!! If you ask Him to, He will be faithful to guide you to that place of purpose and passion. It took me over 3.5 years before God led me to NTUC... not that EDB and KPMG were wrong places, God called me to each of those organisations as well, but He was preparing me then to be effective at NTUC. In the past years, He has also been doing a deep work in me as I walk with Him before I got to be at NTUC. His timing is always perfect as we learn to wait upon Him and allow Him to do the deep work of transformation in us.

I am very mindful that I have not arrived... NTUC is not the end of it all... It is true that I have great job satisfaction, but more importantly, I know that beyond the job, it is Jesus that really gives meaning to life and while I enjoy every moment in NTUC with Him, at His perfect time, He would move me somewhere else, and I will only be most glad to follow because I know it will only be to experience a greater revelation of His love and power in and through my life.

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Thursday, March 01, 2007

I Stand Amazed (How Marvelous)

My dear friend, that you will come to know and experience the deep love of God for you... absolutely nothing in this world will come close to the Savior's love for you...

Look no further my friend...

once you taste of the sweetness, the goodness and the life-giving Love of Jesus, you will realise that nothing in this world will satisfy the hunger and thirst within you...

there is only one answer to the void that you have been trying to fill for so long...

and His name is Jesus Christ.

" I stand Amazed in the presence
of Jesus of Nazarene.
and wonder how He could Love me
a sinner, condemned, unclean

How Marvelous, How Wonderful,
And my song shall ever be,
How Marvelous, How Wonderful,
is my Savior's Love for me...

He took my sin and my sorrow,
and made them His very own,
He bore the burden to Calvary,
and suffered and died Alone...

How Marvelous, How Wonderful,
And my song shall ever be,
How Marvelous, How Wonderful,
is my Savior's Love for me...


When with the ransomed in glory
His face I at last shall see
'Twill be my Joy through the ages
to sing of His love for me.

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Wednesday, February 28, 2007

Enlargement of Love...

So, I was riding the bus back last night after a wonderful massage... and just listening to Passion 06 CD "Everything Glorious"... what can I say, absolutely glorious album that takes u right into the heart of worship.

and at some point, I became very aware that the Lord was performing something supernatural in my spirit... He was enlarging my wineskin, literally, stretching it and stretching it, it was so streched out that I thought it was going to tear. Have u ever been physically torn in many directions? that was kind of what it felt... I felt so stretched that I thought I would just burst apart and it was getting difficult to breathe. Though stretched, the wineskin, however, was not filled, it did contain some wine, but nowhere close to filling the stretched wineskin.

Even as I am pondering and writing this blog, God is revealing and explaining the meaning of that encounter with Him...

1) the wineskin was the container to contain gifts from God... but specifically for this instance, God was speaking to me about love... about containing the Love from God...

2) God had supernaturally enlarged the capacity of the wineskin to contain more of His love... it's not just about receiving more love from God, but to know that the capacity of the wineskin is now much, much larger... the filling will be progressive but the capacity has been enlarged... when the wineskin is small, one could easily be content with just receiving a little from the Lord thinking that if the wineskin is full, it's sufficient ... now that the capacity is enlarged, greater will be the appetite, greater will be the amount that is poured in by the Lord...

3) where the provision is great, the supply will also be great, and the risk of running out (or burning out) will also be much lower. so the Lord will enlarge the container to contain His love, that there will a greater capacity to love. A greater capacity to love the Lord; a greater capacity to love man; a greater capacity to love and attend to not just one thing or one person, but a greater capacity to shower God's love in the many areas that the Lord will be leading me to.

The Lord truly is amazing and I pray that you will come to also experience the great Love of the Father.

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